Let’s get over “what other people think about us” as we cope with life and search for happiness. Victims of trauma must put “Stigma” on the backburner to heal. It’s important for us to acknowledge our struggles, process them, so we can move on and live in peace.
Not so long ago actions and reactions were cause for us to be labeled “crazies” and material for mental institutions. Even during my career I worried that if the company found out much about my mental turbulence, I would get fired. But, there’s been a big shift!
Thankfully, The Mental Health Community has acknowledged PTSD, as a mental disorder which requires urgent care. Professionals agree that if feelings of traumas are not expressed and let go within a year, PTSD may develop.
People who experience any kind of TRAUMA- such as bullying, accidents, shootings, natural disasters, death, severe physical illnesses, divorces, rape, abortions, and loss of houses, child abuse, terrorism or war-MUST DEAL WITH THE EVENT IMMEDIATELY- NO MATTER WHAT THE CAUSE.
Right afterwards, we must acknowledge that something horrific happened to us and that our reactions are normal. We may be in shock, scream, and cry IT’S ALL OK. It’s important to talk to friends or professional and express our feelings.
Please know that if we don’t release hurtful feelings within 1 year, PTSD develops. We start to have a very negative outlook about ourselves, our life and the world, in general. This is no way to live.
Why let “Stigma” go? It is to save our lives. When we find our struggles are so unbearable we must find help. Here’s a glimpse of my life, of how I suffered and what finally worked for me.
On the outside, I wore a “Smiley Mask” and seemed to function OK in life and my beloved flight attendant career. On the inside I suffered from “unaware” Child Abuse PTSD until age 50. All my life I felt inner chaos, fear of people, unworthy, unwanted and unloved, all alone, helpless and hopeless. I began “Looking for Love in all the wrong places,” outside of me and medicated the pain with alcohol.
During that dark time I got divorced and felt like a total failure. I placed blame on everyone but me. I even blamed God and put “the punishing God” on the backburner for 20 years. The action made life even more miserable.
I’ll never forget how my dear friend, Linda, came to the rescue and caused me to have a “wake-up call” when I was 45. She knew I didn’t have a relationship with God. Hesitantly, she told me that she was once in the same place as I was. She said, “A friend gave me a Daily Prayer booklet which changed my life, and now I’d like to do the same for you.”
Linda stuck a daily devotional pamphlet into my purse. She suggested I read one page a day. I did. Every day I was infused with hope and love. I did this for 5 years and made many life-style changes.
Most importantly my mind was opened to an all-loving God. When I had Child Abuse Recall God helped me seek a therapist and face the pain of my childhood. PTSD Recovery deepened my spiritual journey for the last 30 years.
Set Your PTSD Free and live in Harmony!